Just a quick question......... How do you go dark when there are children involved? I feel that I want to stay away from my H at the moment to protect myself but I have to see him when issues with our D come up and when he sees her for access. I guess its the hurt but I feel as if I want to be as far away from him as possible today. I dont want to be hurt anymore by his man. I trusted him and had hopes and dreams that now seem non-existent and i want to be able to focus on myself and D without the continual distraction of him. I am feeling it today, sorry guys, but the hurt is full on for some reason. Maybe have been bottling it up