I Never Imagined Being Here

[pearlharbr]

I'm going to offer a dissenting opinion. While I am wholeheartedly in favor of GAL activities and being true to yourself, I can see how spending a lot of time at the cabin could be a bad thing.

From your wife's pov you are doing more of the same - hunting and fishing, things she is neither interested nor involved in. (Yes, if it bothered her so much she should have said something but that's not the point right now.) So why should she come back to a man who is still more interested in those activities than her?

I would recommend engaging in some different GAL activities. Try something new that you've always wanted to try. You need to have her guessing at what's going on with you, not assuming that you will never change.

So...what else are you interested in? Home improvement projects? Wood working? Playing piano? Basketball? Japanese movies?