Just and update, we had our first meeting with the divorce mediator today. He was EXCELLENT -- the most experienced in our area and one of the best in our state -- and really made us both feel at ease. Today was the easiest part, just explaining the process and going thru the parenting plan, but the more contentious stuff (alimony) will come in our next meeting.
The formerly fetching Mrs. Puppy got some much-needed doses of reality from him, and coming from HIM, instead of me, was a blessing. I was amazingly calm and confident for the 3-hour ordeal, and I think that was everyone I had praying for me. It was still sad, talking about splitting the holidays and stuff, but it all went very smoothly.
Tonite, she is out for drinks with a group of friends. I took off work early, blew off happy hour with my usual Friday buds, and took S16 and S12 golfing. We had a blast, and it was good stuff. Out for wings afterwards.
10:25 and she's still not home (out since 7), but I really don't care anymore. Tonite, I am at peace.
