I have a thread going elsewhere in SSM and someone suggested I was having a MLC.. which i agree to some extent.. but upon discussion w/ H.. he has also been unhappy for many years?
So why does it have to be me that is having a MLC, like I dont really know how I feel..or that it is irrational.. I was more likely to believe that until he expressed his unhappiness also.. now i feel it is more of two people coming to grips w/ where they are in marraige..
Upon reading my other thread..some of my actions may have been driven by MLC.. but those i believe were symptoms of a larger problem..which now has been exposed for both of us to see...
