Thank you everyone for posting. Good grief, have I done it all wrong and now it's too late? Or maybe I got over here to MLC just in time?

I'm taking a 2 hour road trip tomorrow so lots of time to think about it all. Too tired and overwhelmed to write tonight.

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10