If your WAS would agree...

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I know that I will get X amount for child support. If we did not have this debt I would get X amount indefinate spousal support. BUT we have this debt so my L thinks H will get the bulk of the debt instead of having to pay me spousal support. Maybe I am not thinking right, but it seems like I should hold out for that. ACK?!?!?!?! Who knows

I will have my military benefits in June, so I think that battle is won.

It's possible he may have an awakening... who knows. I guess it is possible that any one can have an awakening. Not sure I will still be able to care at that point.