Wow, you should write a book. I'm printing this post out as well. Even if my wife doesn't come back I can certainly use this in the future. I have been planning poorly and as a result executing poorly. This makes perfect sense on a level that I can understand. I know it will be harder than it sounds but I will do it! Thanks so much for your time and input.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!