Yeah, they got into some very weird stuff involving drawing blood and some crazy $h!t.
He was never into that before his deployment. He says he got interested while he was deployed, but never talked to me about any of it because he knew how I felt about it (since we never talked about it, I'm entirely unclear on how he "knew" this).
I got a totally different person back. Irritable, impatient, secretive, aggressive. And we didn't fit well anymore.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
She was telling me that STBXH was texting her recently and it has her weirded out. That he was asking if she was dating anyone and such, and said it made her uncomfortable, especially since they haven't talked in months.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Just stopping by. Interesting discussion on not wanting to lose. A few of my friends said that to me last year- that I shouldn't keep fighting for H just because I couldn't bear the idea of losing (or failing). I think the point about him being the one to lose in reality is right though. Anyway, that just resonated with me. And well done for deleting him off FB. You're so strong.
I still argue with myself sometimes about "abandoning" my M. I know STBXH abandoned me first, but I have to argue with a part of myself that says "a promise is still a promise". It's hard for me to walk away from things when I've committed to them.
I thought the D papers were filed on the 10th based on his weird text message, but the courthouse couldn't pull them up under his name when I called. So...sent him a text: "I called the courthouse to try and get the case number and they can't find it. Did you file them? If so, what's the case number?" We'll see if he gets back to me. *sigh*
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Going to a concert this weekend with SIL and one of her girlfriends. Flying down tonight, back Monday. So I won't be online this weekend.
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(((((Michelle))))) I understand how you feel about a promise, but I don't think you have any reason to feel guilty. You are not walking away from anything that sill exists, as far as I can tell. Still hard, I know.
