I do agree and thanks for stopping by ladies. It is hard to let it go. Not devastating but this is the same gal who had me as her matron of honor in her wedding until she found out I was pregnant. Then when I had the baby early she was saying if she knew that was going to happen then I still could have been in the wedding.

She basically shut me out for a year while I was drowning in new motherhood and they were newlyweds. These slights have hurt and yet I have stuck around. Am I a glutton for punishment or what?

I remember even once while I was dating this guy, she said you aren't treating him right, why don't you break up with him and then he would go out with me!!

There won't be any announcement, maybe more of an internal thought process more than anything. A mental clean sweep perhaps.

kat


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S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory