This is weird...I have been looking for someone that has a similar situation to mine. My wife feels that she has been through an awakening, encouraged by her counselor, and she is finding fault in everything about us. She feels that I have "held her back" and oppressed her???? We used to make decisions based on what was good for our family as a whole now she want only to make herself happy. I feel she resents the fact the we have kids and that she is "stuck" where we are (the state we live in). She loves our boys but she feels that her happiness is out there somewhere and he next man will have certain qualities, meaning she will choose the right guy (not me) and have this deep emotional connection she is searching for. I cannot believe she is being so selfish, we made a choice to raise a family, we had big plans for the future, now her new "path" does not involve me. Has anyone ever had this happen, she had read books like "Eat, pray, love" and is re-writing our history. I know she feels like she is not doing this to me, and she is right. She is doing this to US, including our boys! I just don't recognize her....I feel that true happiness is where you find it and what you make of it. But the worst, now she blames me for her situation, oh well. With that attitude she will destroy any relationship she is in, good luck to her on that. I'm going to be a father to my boys, to me that is happiness.
-Is this style of me first, follow your path at any cost an all out assualt on the family unit?
