Watch out with drinking and talking. I have slipped on that and totally regretted it. I told myself over and over before I went out that I wouldn't say a word but once I had a few drinks my judgement was impared and I suddenly thought it was OK to talk.
But going out is a really good thing. It make such a difference on your PMA. I went out last weekend and it boosted me up a lot. Only lasted a few days but I think the more I do it the more it will boost me up.
I'm not sure where your are in the process. I have recently decided that my only hope was LRT. To go dark as much as possible. Michelle recommends it if your spouse is adament about divorce and on the fast track. Reread that part and see if it is for you. Maybe you are already doing that.
Me-38 W-44 D8 & D6 together '95, Wed '97, Bomb 11/18/08 Still in same house