My wife and I are separated and I KNOW that I should not talk to her about our relationship. She is living at our house and I come over hang out with the boys ( I pick them up from school) and have dinner. We will talk and like a fricken moron I bring up our relationship!! She tolerates it for awhile and the gets angry. WHY DO I KEEP DOING THAT!!!! I feel like I'm doing good, then in walks the woman that I love that wants out and all my strength starts to fade. We will talk about something and then she will mention something about the future (does not involve me) and then I start in on my monolouge of fixing this, is will be different ...blah blah blah. I even tell my self not to do it, then I kick myself for not following through. SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO JUST TALK ABOUT THE WEATHER WHEN THE HOUSE IS ON FIRE! I know I'm pushing her away....today will be a day I do not talk to her about us! Just want to scream......any ideas?