Ultimately, it didn't even matter what happened during the divorce. They tore each other apart and then took their space and have been inching toward each other and then away. Both are scared and seem to miss the moments. But, now they seem to be on the same page. She was so "done," I know this because I am her best friend. But, she loves him and no matter what, even when she really says she's moving on, she has that soft spot. It has been painful to watch and I don't know how it will turn out. I can only tell you that she was mad as hell for a long time before she would let him in.
