WOW, I needed that. You are absolutely correct. I'm actually going to print this out and read it over and over again. It makes sense. I have to think about this and really practice this I guess. I know I have ALWAYS worn my heart on my sleeve and it has gotten me no where with women. I see your points and will be reviewing them.
Thank you.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!