I've come full circle #26

[kat727]

I am doing pretty good actually. I had a strange conversation with my "best" friend last night. I have been trying to help her get a job here. Anyway she had made a mistake on her contact information and was getting upset with me that they didn't look at her other information to get her correct information,

I am not in HR and not really sure how they do some of this stuff, but if your contact info is wrong, I don't know how much extra time they are going to spend on you. I worded it tactfully to my friend. However she just wouldn't let it go. The more she talked, the more I thought about how she always seems to want the scoop on my life, just the dirt please. She usually just calls when she wants something and S16 has even said why do you talk to her when she just makes you feel bad about you and dad.

I am "cleaning house" including relationships and I am torn if it is time to let her go. If we just get together once and a while I guess it is fine but I don't think I will actively seek her out anymore. I don't need it. Plus she wants to know what is happening with flirt guy(she knows him too) and I don't think I want to share it with her, especially if it becomes something more.

We have been "best" friends for a long time but I think it has ran it's course.

kat
ps. She even sounded taken aback when I said I was fine. I mean the earth has been falling all around me for quite a while, she should be thrilled for me that I said I was fine.