This is not really a db thing but my close friend kicked her H out and divorced him so fast I couldn't believe it. It has been two years and now they are going to counseling to see if they can reconcile. They fought through the whole divorce and eventually had almost no contact (except for kid related). It has been crazy to watch them kind of both db'ing. One would pull away and the other would inch toward. A sort of cat and mouse. I don't know if they'll make it but it took some serious separation and going all the way with their own lives (he had girlfriends). Now they are trying again. It seems that going all the way is the ONLY way for some. It is so hard for me to accept that and I wonder if I am only prolonging my agony by taking things so slow. Anyway, if there is any chance for you, this may be the quickest way to get there. But you have to GAL and really change. Wish I could take my own advice.
