Well I am gearing up for the weekend. I'm not going to access the board from home as clearing my cache has just made my w very suspicous of what I am doing. (I think she is concerned I am going to expose the om and fight for joint custody to cut into her cs. God just typing that makes her look terrible). We're going to spend the weekend preparing the house to go on the market. Basically landscaping and painting and minor repairs. Any advice before I go dark for a few days? We're in the cooling off period here in New Hanpshire, but I can't see any alternative to selling the house as she is so gung-ho about it. I still can't decide how to employ proper 180s with my w. I don't know when I am showing support and when I am enabling cake-eating. My plan is to keep it breezy. Do the work around the house. Avoid any R or future talk and basically support her in going guns-ablazing to sell the house. Any advice in the next coupld of hours would be appreciated. I really wish I felt more confident in my path.
