I think the resources they were talking about can be found in the forum list. Go to the bottom of the list to 'archives of mid-life..'. Start reading those threads/posts. There are links within some of them to other resources: The stages of MLC..etc. Those are what I found the most helpful in identifying that my H was going through MLC. Hope that helps!


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.