Wouldn't it just be easier for everyone if these guys just stayed married? I swear, the drama, hurt, pain and confusion they cause is unbelievable.

Don't let him bully you. You have every right to call and check on K within reason. He is so full of crap. He only does it because he thinks you won't do anything about it. Do something. Drag his butt back to court.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!