Stress, WAW and life in general II

[Coach]

I don't think I can see a way for her to leave and come back.

I was terrified of this as well. I had read all the stats, heard horror stories and knew it would hurt me. I didn't have any control over it. My W left me. So I learned how to really DB. My W came home and things are sooooo much better and interesting now. One big positive I see is that your W wants to date. Think about that.
Don't close your mind off because of fear or insecurity. Fear will close you off from intimacy, which is what you want. So put yourself out there in a healthy, loving way with no expectations. Be a strong, wise, honorable and loving man and lead her. You can handle it.
Cheers