I still think we should wait until the May 7th, deadline, because that is the natural way to do it, Get the promotion and leave, turn in the ones that are breaking the rules and then ask her one last time, are you in or are you out.
I'm leaning towards this right now. The problem is, I don't know who the guy is. I'm going to ask someone I know tonight. Thinking of emailing the wife as well if I can find out. And no, I have not told my wife of my thoughts on this yet.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!