The adventure continues--part 3

[AFWAW]

gucci loafer,

You are ABSOLUTELY correct. I did pressure. I don't know why I didn't see it. I think it's because I'm holding on too tight as you indicated.

I said I'm asking for a decision tonight.

I read this again and realized that I ommitted a word. I told her that I'm NOT asking for a decision tonight. The rest was pressure though. You are correct.

I know you don't want to hear this, but she feels she is in love with the OM.

Yeah, I know, I'm realizing that and trying to come to terms with it.

The best way to get her thoughts in your favor is to seem to have given up and moved on so that she has to start chasing and pursuing you for feedback and validation that you will still be there

Ok, this is pretty much true anyway. At this point, I don't see much hope anyway so I am/have pretty much given up hope. I'll be putting away all pictures of her this weekend, putting all the stuff I don't want in boxes and acting as if the house is mine forever in the event she comes over. And I'm not doing it for her, I'm doing it for me.

Thanks very much for the input. Your words have made an impression and sadly I realize that I may have deeper issues where I fear that I may not be able to find someone else? I don't know.