FLTC, just remember that in every R there is a honeymoon phase. That's when both parties are doing their best to please the other and are hiding their insecurities, baggage etc. During that time everything feels like heaven on earth but as we deepen our R and people begin to feel that they are a couple, the other stuff begins to leak out. Donna's advice is good, keep your boundaries and if after a while you find Gym Woman sees your kids as competition, well, you know what to do. Also remember that people have bad days, her as well as you. Hopefully, this was just a blip. Take care.


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White