So my w told my 4 year old about how we are getting divorced and how we are moving. She didn't consult me, which is frustrating. But I am giving her the benefit of the doubt in that I think it came in response to my d's question about why Mommy doesn't wear her ring anymore -- at least the D. part. I am still utterly amazed at the speed of this.

10 weeks ago: My w posts on her facebook page about how being married to me is the best thing that ever happened to her
8 weeks ago: She tells me it is over, no counseling
7 weeks ago; she drops my last name in all of her correspondence
6 weeks ago: I get served divorce papers
4 weeks ago: We stop being able to spend the night in the same house
This week: she tells our daughter that we are getting d.
This weekend: Our house goes on the market

I read other people's stories here and I don't think I have seen one that progresses at this break-neck speed. She won't take a breath.