Learning to Detach

[peacetoday]

DB
is a lot like alanon
a program to deal with active drinking
Both programs suggest detachment
leaving the alcoholic/ or MLCer person alon
to drink or not their choice
we have no control

The only difference I see in MC and DB is intimacy
IN DB there is no true intimacy b/c one person is checked out just like an active alcoholic
so IN traditional C, the therapist will get the MLCer to speak
they usually see things one sided- their way
so for now its validating them ( likea teen)
until they can either grow up or ?
Your H seems closer to you than some here
I think you are doing well choosing to stand and your techniques
continue to support H
as weel as Gal take care of you
you have to wait it out--no quicker way here
peace