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Doc,

I am shocked (((((((HUGS))))))))

A friend of mine works in what I always assumed was the same industry as you and a lot of his Firm have been made redundant. He actually designs the components they sell and so if he goes the whole company goes...but he has just had to take a 10% pay cut. This current economy stinks \:\(


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Doc,

I am surprised that they gave you essentially eight months of warning before your job disappears in order to complete the order for the UK (if I read your post correctly). I had no essentially no warning in my case - in fact I had received a very positive year-end review a month before it happened.

Still - take advantage of anything they offer in terms of outplacement. The time will fly by faster than you think...


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Hey Day,
I made a mistake it's not january.. It's june..
Hey it's summertime.. I don't have cancer..I will be getting about 8 months pay.(if I sign papers that I will not sue)..
What the heck I woke up this morning so things can't be that bad. I am here at work now. It's like a ghost town. Not sure how many people were affected aside from the nes paper said 300 but I do know that some were far more experinced and needed than I.

Time to start down loading my evaulations and training records..

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If you have eight months due you after you finish in June, that is actually pretty good. Do you and W have set some time together to see where you can pare finances so that the money lasts longer?


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Doc,

This will give you some time to look for something else. I like how you are being so positive, I could take some lessons from you \:\)

You are needed by the way \:\) \:\)

Take Care

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DOc,

I know you are going to be just fine. You have what it takes to make it.

I worried when I lost my job years ago after a back sugery that was comp. They let me go. Ya know what, I had a job the next day only drew one day of unemployment and have been successful since.I am better off now thatn when I was at the other job. I had Drive and I know I wouldn"t worry tomorrow if I got laid off because there is something out there for me. I FEEL YOU DO TOO. Thus you will be fine.

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Doc,

First of all I'm glad that your health test went well.

I'm so sorry to hear your news about the layoff. You are a fighter, you have shown that over and over again with your spirit of not giving up. You are one of the hardest working people I know of. You have so much to offer. I know something will come along.

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Again Thanks everyone, \:\)

Wow what a difference a day makes. I went to work today. The parking lot was pretty empty. \:\( Allot of the people that were laid off did not come to work today even though most of them are still employed there until at least next Thursday.
But I sucked it up and went back . I got sooo many hugs (from female employees) and hand shakes from people that could not believe I would be one of those laid off :). They all felt so bad for me. But the longer I was there the more I felt liberated. I felt like I did not have to worry about any more lay offs.(this was the 15th since 2003). It's hard to explain but I felt like I "crossed over to the other side". I started feeling sorry for the people that were left. Knowing that they are going to have to pick up the pieces that management threw all over. I went to my desk. Turned up some tunes and went to work. I had to liven up the area it was so depressing.
My "boss" no longer has any power over me. I still have knowledge that they need. I am now in the driver's seat.
Funny there was some talk by some people that if in two months things start falling apart I may be asked to say longer BUT.. I have already come to peace with the fact that I am leavening. I am looking forward to spending the summer with my son. IF I were asked to stay longer I will asks for more money otherwise I am out of here.My Ex supervisor called a meeting today and not only did I not need to go. I could tell by the looks on the others face that they knew another "bomb" was about to be dropped. I will find out tomorrow what happened. But either way it is no longer a worry or concern of mine.

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Are you all ready for this. Today was actually one of the best days at work I had in a long time. I was in a real good mood when I got home .
And tonight... Wife made a meat pot pie for dinner. When it was ready she actually dished me up a serving and placed my plate in front of me at the table \:D . She said that I was a better man than her the way I was taking this . I told her I know she hardly talked to me for a week after she was laid off . (About a year later she had the affair. I still think it was because of her low self esteem and getting laid off was kind of the last straw) ;\)
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Doc,

You my friend are my hero \:\)

You always look at the positives, and that is great!!

Like I said, this is a start of something different for you and better!!

\:\)


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New beginnings Doc Like I said you have what it takes and you just eeek positive!!!!!

Hugs
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