Thank You BH for your opinion. I have often wondered about this myself. I am on the fence on this one, and that is why I asked. My xh did want a divorce very quickly, he said he wanted to date and didnt feel like it was fair to still be married and doing this. I know this could just be talk. When he left, we did remain intimate for awhile. That was my doing. He said to let him go through whatever he was going through and we could always get remarried. Said he wanted different companionship. Wanted to be single and play around....yes he actually said that! He would come around and do things at the house for the first few months, up until around Jan. He was talking to me and taking my calls until he moved this young girl in with him and ALL that stopped. Want even pull in my driveway when she is with him, but will when she is NOT, so I know she has influence on him and he is afraid of losing her.
He is working out like crazy and laying in tanning bed.
BH, I thought WAS didnt have any contact after they left?
