Thanks. rally helpful advice. Gym Woman was upset last night because a couple of weeks agoD17 got upset with me because I would tlak with G.W. on the phone for an hour or so during the night when D17 was with me. She said I was ignoring her, which of course made me feel guilty. G.W. thought I was ignoring her when she called last night due to D17 being with me, until I explained I was doing homework with S10, and neve got the message. Ugh...growing pains for everyone