hello my friend how are you? sorry ive not been around but things have changed for me, my thread locked up and ive only just realised so i opened a new one. your right about not giving up the things you love doing and it may only be a small part in the contribution of your break up, if things do take a turn for you and your marriage gets back on track (hope so), you may have to compromise a little on it, but im sure you dont need me telling you that, i now know how it feels to have my wife back home and i so need you to have these feelings im having, i will pray for you man, good luck and take care, hang in there im sure things will happen for you, just keep believing,