I have spent many years working extremely hard, studying for a Phd and also working hard in my job and not spending as much time with my H and D as what i wanted to. Like you and your W, my H has left with no chance; he as completely shut down. he stated that I have treated him like a doormat for five years and he will not put up with it nay longer. he has also huge issues re our D in that he feels that I have neglected her. I have, like you made huge changes in my life, and my H sees them but just says that he is delighted for me and my D, but its too late for us. my H has moved in with his development manager of his company; do you know whether there is OM in your W's life?
Stay strong; if you believe in God pray; he forgives all our sins if we trust in him
