Don't worry so much, you're right it wasn't your business and since it's theirs, they'll be motivated to find a way... If they can't do something or it they need to know something, I'm sure they'll call you...

Trampledheart

M51, H49, D21
M 23yrs, T 28yrs
3/07 - OW Bomb
6/07 - move to MIL's; OW relocate
10/07 - OW2 Bomb
5/08 - secretly move to OW2's
end/08 - secretly get beach apt w/OW2
2/09 I petition Legal Sep, not served yet