Got a call from one of the credit card companies tonight. Bill hasn't been paid by H and we've always been so timely, etc. He's the one that wanted to separate bills and get his own account. Yet I'm not really surprised because of the way he's been blowing through money before we separated accounts. So, I tried to get them to call H on his cell, since we're separated, but they wouldn't do that and just asked me to speak to him.
Left a text and VMX from H re: that bill and another one I see now he hasn't paid. No response so far.
I'm sure this situation will get worse before it gets better. Perhaps this will be a reality check for H that the bills still have to be paid and he can't just blow his paycheck on whatever... But then again, maybe not!
I've been feeling pretty angry today, even before the call from the CC co. Angry that he'd just up and leave. It's like he went out for cigarettes and never came back. Angry he won't face up to his responsibilities. Not even me - forget about that for the moment. Responsibility to speak to the kids he helped raise since they were 7 and 8 yrs old, and to be honest. Angry that it's all about him. Angry because even though I contributed to our sitch, it wasn't reason enough to walk away. He's being a coward.
I continue to pray for patience. But today I just have been mad.
