DQ - we have posted before but this is the first time i have read these ones and was glad I found it.

I like you had an A and upon being caught , stopped immediately and fought for a marrige ( except I lied ) 3 years on , I tell the truth and H for 3rd or 4 th time leaves the home. Within weeks i am told of his OW. I begin Dbing. No luck, the nicer and silent I become , the worse and more open he becomes.

I snap and I now have controls of busines etc back. H hates me , our kids dont have much to do with H and will not entertain a minuite of talk or time of his OW.

My question to you DQ are ?
Did you persue your M after your A?
how long did your H stay around?
How long before you gave up?
Did entering a new relationship take courage or did it just happen?
How are your kids towards your H ?
Is he in another R?