I agree with Hooper. She is living in fantasy land and needs a real wake-up call. She point-blank said she didn't want to come home and if pressed to make a decision she would not come home...when my H couldn't "talk in front of me" at MC, it was b/c he was still with ow but trying to hide it from me...
You have to decide what to do but it seems it is time for some type of action on your part. She is not getting what is at stake here, she thinks she has all the time in the world to think about it because she knows you said you wouldn't push her with a timeline...
