It sounds like you and H are interacting well on a regular basis
he is willing to go to C
I would keep the R going as is for now
remembering that if he is in MLC, It may take a while
you can always vary strategies later
IN mlc, nothing really works anyway
except time
some more than others
I wouldnt worry about H seeing the M as unfixable
Most of these WAS are not willing to continue with Therapy especially in beginning
so let it play out
you will know more later
I wouldnt get to caught up in what he says about future either
good or bad
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow