It sounds like you and H are interacting well on a regular basis he is willing to go to C I would keep the R going as is for now remembering that if he is in MLC, It may take a while you can always vary strategies later IN mlc, nothing really works anyway except time some more than others I wouldnt worry about H seeing the M as unfixable Most of these WAS are not willing to continue with Therapy especially in beginning so let it play out you will know more later I wouldnt get to caught up in what he says about future either good or bad peace
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