Lost- I feel your pain. My H has made it very clear that I am no longer apart of his life and will be filling for divorce when he returns from his trip to see OW. I thought God blessed me today with the fact that H couldnt bring his new family back with him, but some family members intervened and I think I lost any shot I had. I am devistated but am going to continue to try and be nice cause thats really who I am. I will never understand what my H is thinking but I cant carry this pain like I have. You will be in my prayers.