Well, once she moves out I think I am going to do some painting, remodeling, and making the place more mine. I think it will be good for me and plus the W and I had planned on moving more outside the city in a couple of years and I still plan to do that so this will help get the place ready to sell.
Today was an ok day. Work is still pretty stressful but I think I have a handle on that and tomorrow should be fairly normal just in time to roll into the weekend. Text msg'd with W a little this morning about nothing really in particular. She had her IC today and called me after and said it was productive. She didn't tell me anything about what productive meant and I wasn't about to ask. She has D3 tonight so I'll be hanging out at a friends house for the night. W had mentioned something over the weekend about going to counseling together once or twice a month so we could work on communicating better with each other and stressed the communicating...not working on our R. I said it sounded good and on Tuesday when I went to my IC I schedule an appt. for next week at a time she could make it with her work schedule. I told her about it that day and said I made it at that time in case she still wanted to go. If not it was fine because that time worked out well for me. She said she didn't know if she wanted to or not. After her IC session today she said she did want to go if I still wanted her to. Don't know what changed her mind. Also don't have a clue if this could be good or bad...really never know with her but it'll definitely be interesting.


Me: 38
Her: 28
D3
Married: Oct. 2005
Bomb: Jan. 2009

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