Donna, I don't know whether it makes me strong or not but I have always tried to stay focused on the "family" versus the "R". The girls deserve two parents who can get along in the best possible fashion and as long as STBX plays along we will have a family. Hey, tonight was Hot Yoga round 2! The good news is that I didn't lose my breath once in 90 minutes, the bad news is I almost passed out at least four times and spent half the class on the floor. STBX almost made it through the whole class before watching the room start to spin. What's not to love about this Hot Yoga thing...besides the fact that it's INSANE! I almost yakked in the dressing room, I`m thinking heat prostration. STBX was actually quite encouraging and caring on the way home as she tried to make me feel better about my less than stellar performance. At one point I said ``even the fat guys outlasted me`` She said that those guys come all the time and I was doing just fine. Y`know I`m hating the Yoga but I`m enjoying the connection with STBX as we suffer together...it`s kind of similar to our marriage I should have realized that the way to DB was not to choose activities that are fun to do together but to choose ones that are full of suffering and that offer the challenge of trying to keep your dinner down together. Now that is true Dbing. Anyway the best news of the night is that OP, who goes with STBX on different nights, is `struggling`with this Yoga thing too. I`m sorry, but I do enjoy knowing she`s in pain...how unchristian of me! Also, STBX asked me if I'd like to stay for dinner but I declined. I'd like to say I was using a Dbing tactic but I was just wanting to get home before my legs seized up and I couldn't drive! She asked me last week too, but I declined then too. Btw, I am not DBing here, just to be clear! FLTC, you are absolutely right! Some day, out of nowhere, someone will come along. It`s a matter of believing and staying active out there. I couldn`t even check out the babes at Yoga tonight, I was too busy trying to stay conscious! Later dbers.
I should have realized that the way to DB was not to choose activities that are fun to do together but to choose ones that are full of suffering and that offer the challenge of trying to keep your dinner down together. Now that is true Dbing. Anyway the best news of the night is that OP, who goes with STBX on different nights, is `struggling`with this Yoga thing too. I`m sorry, but I do enjoy knowing she`s in pain...how unchristian of me! Also, STBX asked me if I'd like to stay for dinner but I declined. I'd like to say I was using a Dbing tactic but I was just wanting to get home before my legs seized up and I couldn't drive! She asked me last week too, but I declined then too. Btw, I am not DBing here, just to be clear! 
