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He said right now he cant think of us, its even more basic, like a survival thing.


He what?

kalni...why do you love this man? Why are you holding on to him? Your life is on hold for him. Why?

I caution you that this forum will keep you hanging on to hope for years. Fear and denial are poweful tools to immobilize you.

What is a marriage?

Did you say, for better or worse (well, maybe not TOO worse)...or...'til death do we part (well...maybe not THAT long).

Those weren't MY vows.

Think.

FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;