HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[trampledheart]

I am going to file for D next week. But for me, the way to handle this is to remember that I have to protect my own dignity.

Lola, I'm so sorry that you've gotten to that point. How about just filing for Legal Separation? It's just like a Divorce except you just can't get married, and many people choose this route for medical insurance and religious reasons. I will read up on your situation, but in a nutshell, what has your H done that you feel you need to divorce in order to protect your own dignity?

TH I am not sure what kind of advice you got here, and for that I am sorry. You should never involve your children. That is what the MLC'er does.

Apologize. I think that is the best thing.

I've talked to my daughter yesterday and apologized to her if she felt in any way that I had put her in the middle. She didn't feel that I did but appreciated my concern and apology. She's been wanting me to file for awhile now. She doesn't see him in the same light, after he went MLC-crazy.

Take care and thank you for touching base with me...

Trampledheart