Jerri, You need to sit down and think about what you want out of this. When meeting with the lawyer, you need to make it known as to what you want, not the other way around. You are the one paying this person's bill and they need to listen and understand just exactly you want them to do.
Some of these lost souls will remodel, insist on renewing wedding vows, purchase a holiday cruise and then announce later it's over. They all do crazy things...I would venture to say your h was just starting to want different scenery, hoping that with the change, things would be different for him. I know, it's crazy, but that's how they think.
Good luck on the lawyer hunt....if I were walking in your shoes, I'd talk to a couple more before I laid my money on the table, especially if I'm not ready for a divorce.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
