Ohh, why bother? What do you want to do? Do it and dont be hostile. If you want to buy her a gift buy it. Tell him and leave it at that. Why should you be worried about what he thinks? Unless you would do it to make a point which IMO you shouldnt, not wise to use such occasions when kids are involved. If you just feel like it and it comes natural to you and you are not trying to "teach him" something, do as YOU please Bbj. K