I lurk around, and if anything strikes me, I will give my two cents, wrong or not, lol! I know this is hard believe me, but the more you do things, go out, go to the lake, (I have a lake cabin myself that was an awesom get away) or whatever, the easier this will become. Contact by you, will almost always lead to disappointment because you will not get the response that you have conjured up in your own mind.
