Why don't we just wait to see what is in the cards with the information coming to you on May 7th. Then we will know what going to happen going forward for you and your daughter. Will give her the time she has asked for to "settle" things. Then we can get in to ultimatums that I think you should lay down if she does not wake up. Also, we can start to talk about revenge if she breaks the rules that you will lay down for her then, I do not buy your intentions that it is the right thing to do.
