Learning to Detach

[kjensen]

I started out with no/low expectations. Another good day so far and don't plan to see H later..Had lunch with H at home and worked on our sprinkler system together. I was telling him about some troubles a co-worker of mine is having. We were talking about the troubles and I said it puts things in perspective. I talked about things being fixable and H didn't see our/his situation as fixable. He didn't elaborate and I was scared to ask. I said I could see how I think things could be fixed but I knew that was my path and not necessarily his.

I wish I knew why he thinks things are unfixable and what exactly that means to him..

Later I gave H some positive comments and gave him a hug for some notice he got for doing his job well. I said I'd see him tomorrow and he said text me later..

So should I text him? or not? Probably won't unless I have something to say. I'm not really distancing at this point-kind of in a gray area b/c we're doing couple counseling weekly.. Any thoughts?