Sorry, wasn't meaning to sound snide. I was really just teasing you a little in a friendly, smiling, winking way, even though I see that it didn't sound like that.
Trust me, from this perspective, it is pretty clear that you are a place that lies a bit of a way from really being ready to date. The automatic, uninformed "not an online dater" comment is pretty standard from people in that place. Kind of like a sex-toy hater who rejects them as dirty, stupid, pointless, ineffective, etc... until she gets one. Odd analogy, but I'm in a hurry, lol.
