If you crush her career, you might have to provide more financial support to her if there is a divorce. Is that right?
I won't have to provide her with squat at this point. I hold all the cards. I will get full custody of my daughter. She will have to pay child support and has already been doing so.
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If she ends up with OM, perhaps they deserve each other.
Perhaps, but I don't think it will happen as OM's wife is an O-6 colonel who makes a hell of a lot more money than my wife does and they have children also. He has already told my wife that he will NEVER leave his wife and yet she still persists.
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Seriously think about your real reason for "bringing her down"
I have. Part of it is vindicitive and the other part of me thinks it's the right thing to do as it against the law in the military! She has the opportunity to get promoted and affect other peoples lives professionally and personally and based on her behavior don't think she should have the opportunity to do so. That goes double for OM who is a LtCol(O-5). Officers seem to get away with this quite a bit.
I guess we'll have to see what happens and how I feel at the time.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!