If you crush her career, you might have to provide more financial support to her if there is a divorce. Is that right?
I just don't see the point of taking her down, really. It's better for you and your daughter if she's independent and stable.
If she ends up with OM, perhaps they deserve each other.
I said to another poster earlier this morning... No one is so great that they can leave their spouse dangling on a thread, begging for mercy. Not for long anyway.
I'm so sad about her recent behavior. I wish she would wake up.
I agree with Puppy. She's cake eating. You don't have to stand for it.
Seriously think about your real reason for "bringing her down". It isn't reflective of who you really are, is it? It's a little "nanny nanny poo poo... SO THERE!", you know?