Yeah I would say minimum a month. You just have to play it by ear.
It was 5 months before my W came back (according to her, not of her own choosing). But things got better and last week was the first time in over a year that we actually had lunch together alone. And last night we watched tv alone for the first time in awhile also. Baby steps all the way.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.