The adventure continues--part 3

[AFWAW]

No doubt, I do not know too much about OM situations, but do you know this guy, does he know you know? If I were married and having an affair with another mans wife, I would have a hard time looking that guy in the eye, Come to think of it, I would have a hard time looking in the mirror.

No, I don't know him but could very easily find out and I am seriously and I mean seriously considering calling the 2 star general that runs that organization, taking my commander and the emails I have with me and talking to him. This would of course ruin any chance I have with the wife but hey I may not have a chance anyway.

Does he know the ramifications of his actions, two broken families, loss of two careers?

I'm sure he does but based on what she's told me, him admitting to her that he had a girlfriend for 6 years at one point while he was married and calling his wife from my wife's apartment and she still says she loves him and wants him even though he's leaving in Oct?

The scene itself would be very dramatic. I can imagine the hate that would follow. But I'm starting not to care. Really.

Do not push these wedding plans in her face, but if the subject comes up again, why don't you say, I will email you some information about some ideas I have been looking into.

I won't. I actually liked the idea up until the point she started comparing me to OM.

I think she is well aware of what is expected of her if she chooses you and your daughter

I hope you're right because there will be no next time and while I've restrained myself before, I will become unleashed at that point and I will do everything in my power to bring her down professionally and personally. My daughter already suspects and I don't know this but based on my daughter's comments she has little to no respect for her mom right now which will more than likely make things more difficult for reconciliation.

At this point, I don't know how you guys percieve things but it doesn't look like a recipee for success in my book.